Corporate Hypocrisy

Is there anything more detestable than a hypocrite?

Dante placed them in the 8th Circle of Hell, just one level above the Devil himself.   Some of Jesus’ harshest words were directed at the great hypocrites of his day:

“They tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them…Everything they do is done for people to see…Woe to you, you hypocrites…You snakes!  You brood of vipers!  How will you escape being condemned to hell?”

And yet we are almost all guilty of hypocrisy from time to time.  Lord knows I am!  There are really only two surefire ways to avoid hypocrisy: either have no morals at all, or stick to your moral ideals every second of every day. 

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Are we an Oral Culture?

Marshall McLuhan was the first great prophet of the digital age. 

In his masterwork, Understanding Media, McLuhan coined the now famous phrase: “The Medium Is The Message.”  I remember hearing that line at various times in my life and not really understanding it.  Now that I’ve read the book, I think I know what it means.  It means that information we absorb (the “message”) is not as important as the means by which we absorb it (the “medium”).

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Fight or Flight

Dianne Timmering has been on me lately to spend more time in the field.  She’s right, of course; how can I do the job I am supposed to do without visiting our homes and centers and experiencing firsthand what it is like for stakeholders and customers alike?

In the Ancient Chinese book of wisdom, the Tao te Ching, there is a poem that seems to provide an answer, or at least an excuse:

We can understand the world as it is
without leaving our home.
We can understand the world as it might be
without peering dreamily out our window.

The further we go
the less we know.

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Being and Becoming

Several months ago, during a senior team meeting here at the home office, Mitch Abrams said something has stayed with me ever since.  He was talking about how some of his experiences over the past few years have changed him: his growth as a leader at Signature, his mission trips to Haiti, and of course his wife Jill’s brush with death. 

I was so new that I didn’t really know Mitch; I just assumed he had always been the way he appeared to me then.

So Mitch’s next comment caught me by surprise.  He said that he was frustrated and hurt that some of his colleagues in the room didn’t recognize how much he had changed.  They were so intent on holding onto their old notions about him that they couldn’t see the man he had become.  He wasn’t looking for credit or a pat on the back.  He just wanted to be seen for who he was, rather than who he used to be.

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Emotional Supercomputers

How do we make decisions? 

Seems like an easy question at first, doesn’t it?  We weigh all the options like the highly evolved creatures we imagine ourselves to be and then we arrive at an answer based on some internal algorithm.  Thus, the more we engage our rational brain, the better our decisions are likely to be. 

This has been the basic theory of the mind since at least the time of the ancient Greeks.  Plato himself described the mind as a chariot pulled by two horses, one of them well-behaved and orderly, the other wild and hostile.  The calm horse is Reason.  The other is Emotion.  The job of the charioteer (the self) is to keep the untamed horse from running wild so that both may move forward without injury.

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Self Determination

Theories of motivation are all the rage in psychology circles today, and understandably so.  We live in the most well-educated, data-saturated, fast-paced society in the history of the planet.  In a single 10 minute Google sprint, we can summon more information than the average person living 100 years ago might process in a lifetime.

And yet our brains remain unchanged.  Unchanged, in fact, since the dawn of the species.  We are still essentially walking, talking amygdalas with a manual override function located somewhere in the prefontal cortex.

What this means, practically speaking, is that we poor hairless apes have vastly more objects of attention competing for the same scarce mental resources.  What matters today is not so much “what we know,” but “what we care about.”  So called “intrinsic” motivation (what we love, what inspires us, what makes us feel complete) always trumps “extrinsic” motivation (what some authority figure tells us we have to do, what we do for money or a promotion or some other reward).  Study after study has confirmed this basic premise: the best performers in any given field of human activity are those who truly love what they do.

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“I’m Here”

I am slowly coming around to the view that all things happen for a reason, or rather, that all things happen toward a purpose.  For most of my life, this has been an alien country to me, the realm of fanatics and mystics and quietists.  I would occasionally visit on a kind of mental vacation, but I was a stranger in a strange land.  I didn’t speak the language or undertand the customs.  The food tasted different.  I felt foolish and out of place, and so I would eventually return to where I felt most comfortable and whisper the traveler’s prayer: “Thank God I made it home.”

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Prodigal Sons and Daughters

At some point after both of my parents died, I thought that perhaps my purpose in life might be to provide “wisdom” to others who would experience the same loss later in their lives.  But I could find no meaning in their deaths.  My mother died of brain cancer when I was 18.  Years later, my father died of a heart attack after a brutal 2 month stay in the hospital following bypass and lung surgery.  When people would come to me for comfort or healing words in the aftermath of loss, I had none to give.

Our wounds are supposed to have healing power.  They cut into the quick of our common humanity and allow us to identify with the suffering of others.  My favorite spiritual writer, Fr. Henri Nouwen, wrote about this in his book The Wounded Healer:

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Fighting Fear and Greed with LOVE, part 2

Love always wins.  Always.  I have to remind myself of this constantly, because my nature is to “fight fire with fire.”

One of the hardest scriptures for me to accept is, “Resist not evil.”  When they came to arrest Jesus in the garden of Gethsemane, Peter cut off the soldier’s ear, but Jesus told him to put away his sword.  The war will not be won with steel and fire.

As most of you know, we are fighting our own war.  Unscrupulous plaintiff’s attorneys constantly troll for lawsuits by running full page attack ads against nursing homes.  You may have even seen them: “WARNING!  BEWARE!  YOUR LOVED ONES MAY BE AT RISK!”  Then they may cite a minor deficiency from years past as evidence of possible “abuse or neglect.”  Even the best facilities are not immune.  We’ve seen attack ads run against 3-, 4-, and even 5-star buildings.

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The Happiness Effect

Healthcare organizations have gotten pretty good over the years at hiring for competency.  We have a bead on what skills to look for in doctors, nurses, CNAs, and administrators.

Yet we as an industry still struggle with high turnover and absenteeism, low staffing efficiency, and workforce morale.  Despite ever increasing levels of education, specialization, and overall competency, customer satisfaction ratings for the industry continue to languish.  It seems that our customers have come to see clinical excellence as a baseline expectation.  Press-Ganey and other measurement organizations report that it is the so-called “soft” aspects of care–empathy, compassion, attentiveness, positivity, authenticity–that drive customer perceptions and customer loyalty.  And when it comes to these areas, most healthcare organizations remain in the Dark Ages.

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